๐๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐๐ญ ๐ ๐จ๐๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ ๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ? โฃ
Do you want to be successful?โฃ
Do you want to reach your goal?โฃ
โฃWell, youโll need perseverance, an open-mind, imagination, willigness to learn, mindset management, self-care AND supportive habits.โฃ
Letโs look at the 3 basics youโll definitely need for a good goal-setting:โฃ
1. First of all โ ๐๐ 100% ๐๐ก๐๐๐ง ๐ฌ๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ง๐๐๐ก๐ก๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ, ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐ค๐๐จ ๐จ๐ช๐๐๐๐จ๐จ ๐ข๐๐๐ฃ ๐๐ค๐ง ๐๐ค๐ช. Youโll need to define success for yourself. We shouldnโt compare our dreams to othersโ. We are all different, our definition of success is different and this is OK like this.โฃ
Many drop off at this stage already because they are not clear what their true deep desires are, or they donโt dare to dream and they donโt have dreams and goals at all โ which is a great example of self sabotage and fear is hiding behind it.โฃ
You can set goals properly if you dig deep and get 100% clear what your own dreams really are. ๐๐ค๐ช ๐ฃ๐๐๐ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐จ, ๐ฌ๐๐ฎ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ง๐๐๐ก๐ก๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐ค๐จ๐ ๐๐ง๐๐๐ข๐จ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐ค๐ข๐ ๐ฉ๐ง๐ช๐.โฃ
2. Second, if you have your goals, ๐๐ค๐ช๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐ช๐ฅ๐ค๐ฃ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ค๐๐จ๐ฉ๐๐๐ก๐๐จ. There will be obstacles, for sure, so await them as prepared as possible.โฃ
You can move towards your goal if they are inspiring and motivating enough so when obstacles come you donโt quit but know that those are the part of the journey and anyhow you go further.โฃ
For this - ๐๐ค๐ชโ๐ก๐ก ๐ฃ๐๐๐ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐ ๐๐๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ข๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐ข๐๐ฃ๐. Our brain is designed to keep us safe and away from pain, which also means that our brain fears new things โ which are inevitable on the journey to success.โฃ
3. As a third thing, when you have your goals and obstacles - here comes the fun part โ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ฆ๐ฌ.โฃ
How do you feel? What do you have in your life? What has changed? Letโs use your imagination. Whatโs your day like? What kind of a ๐๐๐๐๐ฉ๐จ do you have?โฃ
โฃHaving supportive habits is key to be able to achieve long-term success. There are so many videos, studies, books about whatโs common in successful people. For sure they are spending their time consciously and they have all established supportive habits. โฃ
โฃSupportive habits help us reach our goals, make us a better person, help us grow while our bad habits hold us back. All of us. You are not a bad person, just because you have bad habits. We all have bad habits. We are humans.โฃ
Those successful people arenโt perfect either, they just aim for creating and maintaining better habits.โฃ
โฃAre you ready to set goals and create the supportive habits to reach them?โฃ
โฃIโm dying to know what your goals are and which habits could support you? Write them to me in the comments or in a DM โฃ
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